Sometimes, there's just nothing you can do.

You'd like to help, but maybe it's not your job, maybe it's not time, maybe help is just not able to be accepted.

It can be frustrating, feeling that you have something to offer that could be of real help and having that offer misunderstood or ignored or flat out turned down.

Understand that this means that it's your turn to accept, to accept what is. Because, as much as it feel like you have something to offer someone else, that feeling may - just may - be all about you. You may be projecting. It happens. And it's human. It's very, very human.

So turn all your helpful instincts towards yourself and take good care of you instead.

You deserve it.