Unidentified, unexpressed or unintegrated feelings manifest in our lives as reality.

Because what is within is reflected without.

When these feelings are, shall we say, difficult to identify, we find ourselves in unusual situations, situations that will lead, eventually, to personal growth of some sort. Using these situations to explore ourselves, to explore the possibilities of what it is that we may be carrying around inside ourselves, is the optimum response and will yield the ultimate in personal growth. Standing back and observing, with a what-the-hell attitude will do nothing more than allow the internal attractant to submerge once more into your subconscious self only to surface again at a later date, looking pretty much the same.

When you have the opportunity to wonder to yourself, "How did I get into this?" take advantage of the situation and look for an answer.

It lies within you. It lies within your feeling self. Ask yourself, "How, exactly, is this making me feel?"; "When, as a child, might I have felt like this?" ; "Is there some other time in my adult life when I felt like this?"; "What was going on around me at those times?"

It does not matter if no answers come immediately. It is enough to have posed the questions. Walk with your un-knowingness and be open to whatever pops into your consciousness, even if there seems to be no connection.

If answers do come and you know what to do about it, do it. If answers come and you do not know what to do about it, look for a source of external wisdom. It will be there for you, it always is when you need it.

In the end, you will be more of who you came here to be.