Nobody - including me - really likes to see The Tower show up because, really, it's kind of embarrasing. It only show's up when you've been dragging your feet, when you've not done what should have done. Now the Universe has to step in and force your hand.

So, bite the bullet, and look to what you have, not what you've lost. You can still have a picnic on a rainy day. All you need is an umbrella.