There are those of us who have will power and those of us who simply don't. That's not a judgment, it's just the way things are. But for those of us who lack the ability to be relentless, there are always other people who can inspire, prod, instigate or sometimes shame us into behaving as if we do...temporarily, anyway.

If you want that 'help,' by all means, embrace it; but if you don't, if you can accept that you are who you are and that who you are is not consistently persistent, feel free to mention that on an as needed basis. You'll feel so much better being who you are and not who someone else thinks you should be,